I became spoiled I guess would be the word, in that I just assumed I would get a spanking whenever I needed/wanted it. I guess this assumption came from that I always did. Whether my mood indicated it. Whether I teased my boyfriend enough. That we both love it as part of sex play too.
We have no neighbors to worry about noise or nudity over. We don't have any kids to worry about. We have a dresser full of spanking toys, several that he has made himself.
Spankings were always "there" to be had.
Mike not being in the mood has made me realize that this is not the case, for I remain unspanked.
It has also got me wondering about what it must be like for the one doing the spanking. I have realized, it must be a lot of work.
You guys (meaning that do the spanking), it really isn't as easy as just swinging your arm and connecting hand or other object to a willing ass is it? There is quite an onus on you to deliver the spanking that is needed, to know how it is needed, to make sure you give the amount that is needed, know when to stop. I mean you can't always get what you need to know by the reaction of the one being spanked. There are times when she/he may not even know themself, and it is up to you. And, as I have found out now, you have to be in the mood to do the spanking.
You all that do the spanking, what other things do you find yourself having to do? Am I right about it not being so easy and simple? Do any of you feel that sometimes you are taken for granted and that you will simply stop to give a spanking whenever the spankee feels or needs one?
Those of you that are the ones getting the spankings, do you too sometimes find that you expect your mate to spank you whenever you feel like you need or want one? That you take for granted that they will always be there to get?
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